Add to Cart: The Consumerism of Human Connection

Picture this: you’re curled up on your couch, scrolling through profiles like you’re browsing an e-shop for a new handbag. You check interests, hobbies, and photos, deciding who is "worth" an approach. You reach out to the unknown, hoping to make it known.

But then, the boredom hits. A few DMs in, and the spark isn't there. So, you stop. You move on. You ghost.

Let’s be honest—digital dating is efficient. It saves us from losing an entire evening to a bad date. We exchange a few messages, make a quick decision, and stay in our pajamas. But this convenience comes at a cost. It trains us to "put things away" the moment they get boring.

Real relationships don't have an "exit" button. In the real world, you have to be present. You have to justify your feelings, negotiate through conflict, and solve problems rather than avoiding them. By treating people like products, are we losing the ability to actually stay?

How many people do you "discard" in a week?